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Quantumly Inspired has said in his blog that - ” I've come to the assertion that in order to change behavior, we must change the belief about the behavior. And major behavioral change is what our world needs.” - I believe that I agree completely ! Robyn says: http://quantuminspiration.zaadz.com/ wellses@iafrica.com says: yea but what ya gonna do to help change it Robyn says: change belief about behaviour - actually my thing is to be completely detached from all and everything - in that way you will not be attached to a behaviour you will not have beliefs etc etc - because you won't be attached to a belief - this is my aim - wellses@iafrica.com says: sounds a bit distant to me !!!! you will end up aloof Robyn says: what ? on a roof wellses@iafrica.com says: silly girl Robyn says: no, i will end up loving every single thing so unconditionally its frightening wellses@iafrica.com says: ja ja - when will you end up like that wellses@iafrica.com says: think you must buy a puppy wellses@iafrica.com just sent you a Nudge! Robyn says: don't know - its hard work from here - would need to sell everything i own and probably go to a retreat in india somewhere or tibet. the thing is, you become attached to outcomes - being attached to outcomes (good or bad) creates desires which in turn depending on the outcomes make you feel good or bad and feelings pass wellses@iafrica.com winks: Play "Lots of Laughing" wellses@iafrica.com says: agree - but then that is life is it not Robyn says: to be unattached to all this is bliss - wellses@iafrica.com says: but you cannot be rudderless Robyn says: whats rudderless? wellses@iafrica.com says: no direction Robyn says: it is a direction wellses@iafrica.com says: direction without a map - wont know where u going Robyn says: would be more direction Robyn says: ok - now - stop convincing me - in fact the more you type the more i'm convinced to go wellses@iafrica.com says: maybe you a wondering spirit - buy a puppy Robyn says: no already had kitty cats and birds wellses@iafrica.com says: get that monkey then Robyn says: http://quantuminspiration.zaadz.com/blog/2006/7/the_joy_of_water_and_light ; wellses@iafrica.com says: you could go - I cant wellses@iafrica.com says: do you really study all these zaadz philosophies Robyn says: i do Robyn says: actually they're metaphysical studies and individual philosophies so i would say i don't study them - i read them for enjoyment wellses@iafrica.com winks: Play "RS Wink 2" wellses@iafrica.com says: but what about life and living it Robyn says: enjoyment and discovery Robyn says: i do that in between wellses@iafrica.com says: balance Robyn says: don't 4get - life is what happens when you're making other plans Robyn says: so its a matter of being aware completely Robyn says: at all times Robyn says: thats the tough part Robyn says: so lovebug have you learnt enough for one day Robyn says: wellses@iafrica.com says: to those who understand no explanation necessary - to those who don’t none possible